by Apostle Gabriel Cross
I asked Yahweh, “Why do we have so many unresolved issues in marriages and relationships?”
He responded, “Quit rehashing the problems or you will become one with the problem. When you constantly rehearse the issues, you become married to the issues, instead of the person. You become one with their issues, instead of becoming one with the person. In lieu of the person being on your mind, passionately and perpetually, the person’s flaws or issues are always on your mind. My remedy is forgiveness. Forgiveness is abandoning the offense and embracing in love, ‘The person.’ Meaning let it go, no longer carrying it or keeping it as a pet. Forgiveness causes reviving and healing in the relationship. If you don’t forgive, unforgiveness results in you becoming loyal to the problem and not to the person, which progresses to playing the ‘blame game.'”
“The blame game is laced in the spirit of condemnation. (Matthew 12:37; Luke 6:37; Romans 8:1; 1 John 3:20-23) One usually condemns another person, because one is condemned already in their heart concerning something else. Therefore, when you play the blame game, no one ever wins because no one is fighting to LOVE, only fighting to BLAME, or fighting to be RIGHT. If you prize being right in your relationship, more than the person you are in relationship with, then LOVE will be estranged in your relationship.”
“No one wants to submit to LOVE, you have to submit to LOVE first, before you can submit to each other. Learn to embrace and celebrate your differences. Stop seeing and being bitter towards one another, start seeing and being better for each other. Seek Me for wisdom in how to be a blessing to the one you’re in covenant with. Remember, you cannot change anyone, that is my occupation,” says the Lord.
“Therefore, regardless to the person’s flaws, vice, or issue you have with them, refuse to be in the place where only ‘I, Jehovah,’ am supposed to be in their life. Divorce the past, so you can marry a better future with the person you’re in covenant with. FIGHT TO LOVE, don’t fight to be right”…Selah
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